"We are Cursed"

"We are Cursed"
 As we back out of the driveway Brielle says, "I think we're cursed". 
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Mother's Day -- Let's Be Real

Mother's Day -- Let's Be Real
"You're supposed to listen to your Mom on Mother's Day"   This may have been an exact quote from me yesterday.
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Working Through Grief

Working Through Grief
I've had years of working through grief. 
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#Writing #poetry #grief #Hope #Faith #northernlights #cancer #MetastaticBreastCancer

Puzzles of Life

Puzzles of Life
I came across this memory today, from April 2020.  The days when most all of us were quarantined to home.  When so much was unknown in each of our lives.
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Chemo today..... Hawaii tomorrow

Chemo today..... Hawaii tomorrow
I never thought we'd be taking Brielle to Hawaii. 
       But
       I also never thought I'd be living with metastatic breast cancer. 
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What's your hobby?

What's your hobby?
Do you have a hobby, that when you’re doing it, you get completely lost in it?  
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As Featured in Area Woman Magazine: The Gift of Fun

As Featured in Area Woman Magazine:  The Gift of Fun
I had the privilege of writing an article for Area Woman Magazine.
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11/10/09 Made Me a Stronger Person

11/10/09 Made Me a Stronger Person
11/10/09 made me a stronger person.  

13 years ago today was when I picked up that phone call. 
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Keeping it Real

Keeping it Real
Keeping it Real: 

I share a lot about wins and what's been working for me.   

To be honest though, November has been a TOUGH start. 
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The Day That Never Happened

The Day That Never Happened
Below is an excerpt from a journal I kept and shared with my family/friends after I was diagnosed with breast cancer.  This particular post was written after I found out my cancer had metastasized.  
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National Coaches Day

National Coaches Day
Since today is #NationalCoachesDay, I thought I’d share a little about why I chose to become a coach. 
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Sharing the WHY

Sharing the WHY
I've been realizing lately how important it is to share the WHY with my family.  When I share the why with my daughter, she cooperates and relates more easily. 
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The Little Engine That Could

The Little Engine That Could
Today is a big day for me. SEVEN years ago I got the call.   

The 2nd call -- more than 5 years after the 1st time I had heard the words "you have cancer". 

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In times of

In times of
Even in times of darkness may you still notice the beauty 

Even in times of question may you still hold on to hope
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Freedom!

Freedom!
It was a cold Friday evening in January.  The morning temperature was 26 degrees below zero.  School was cancelled because of the wind-chill temps of 45 below.

Brian was out of town for the weekend so it was just 6 year old Brielle and me.  What could we do for fun tonight?
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FUTURE

FUTURE
Here’s a glimpse into the past few days for me:

Standing in our kitchen, I hold on tighter and seconds longer than a “normal” hug.  I first hug Brielle, then Brian. Brian squeezes tighter too.  “I’ll be thinking of you, babe.  I hope your scans go well.”  The tone of his voice tells me we’re both thinking the same thing. 
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